WORST ARTICLE I EVER EVER READ... NOT EVEN GOING TO SHARE IT ... BUT I WILL TALK ABOUT IT!!!!!!
I read an article today that being Gay ... and being Obese are choices that people make...
sigh......
So lets start with the obvious ...
IF one is obese... they get to that point several ways..
it could be genetic ( thyroid disorder ) .. it could be medical... due to medication such as prednisone ...
it could be do the wiring in their brain that does not know when to say the body is satisfied..
it could be environmental... growing up in a home where most of the family is obese.. and healthy choices are not offered readily...
it could be a choice in that .. that really do not care how they look or about their health .. and just enjoyed eating..
it could be depression , coping or abuse issues..
So there are several factors that play in to that ..... My issues where depression and portion control...
I like many others have decided to gain control... this is a constant battle we wage with in ourselves... it has to be monitored and maintained on a daily basis by finding tools that work.. for the individual..
Being Obese is not a really a choice... unless someone just does not give a damn...
Being gay ... ( rolling eyes) ... No this is not a choice... yes there are loud and proud and flaunty gay folk out there.. maybe they choose to be flaunty... who knows... but the core of being a homosexual.. is not a choice.... In my mind I seriously doubt someone says... OHHH so I think I will be gay .. boy will that make my life easy peasey ... in the same way a person who struggles with weight does not wake up and say... .Man I think it would be a rock solid idea to weigh 350 pounds.. .that would be awesome to struggle with mobility .. etc.... No I don't think that's much of a choice issue for either person..
I am of the belief that ... a person who is gay.. is simply born that way .. that is how their brains are wired...
A person in MOST cases can manage weight control... unless there is a medical reason why they are obese.. even then there are options that can be done to help them.. if they want that help ...
A person who is gay... can choose to live a straight life... but in the end.. all they will have accomplished more than anything is lying to themselves.. and not being the gifted beautiful person that they were intended to be by being authentic to who they are...
To me... the greatest struggle is being your authentic self... it seems in the shift of humanity we struggle to fit molds and ideals of who we are...or who we thing we are suppose to be... correcting a flaw is one thing... managing obesity is one thing... being gay is not a flaw to be corrected... nor does it need to be managed.. it simply is...
No one will die from being BORN gay ..
However one can die from being obese... it can shorten your life span .. it can take so much away from you... and in most cases ... when desire is strong it can be reversed and managed...
Being gay does not need to be reversed or managed... it simply just needs to be another facet of humanity ... for that is simply all it is..
I found it shockingly laughable that the author of this article tried to compare obesity and being gay... it as absolutely absurd...
there are no comparisons ....
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